Shoot for the moon, even if you miss, you'll land among the stars. - Norman Vincent Peale
Everyone should have a goal. long term or short term, I've always felt like while I had no idea what I was doing or where I was going that one day I'd be exactly where I wanted, that one day things owls just magically fall into place and maybe they still will.
I've learnt a really important lesson lately and that's that I can't control everything, as much as I'd really like to, a lot of things going on in my life are not within my control. I can't control more things than I can and while this used to bother me quite a lot, I've grown accustomed to just letting things happen and then I get to actually enjoy it when I control something.
I have goals, I have ideas and ambitions about the things I can control, what I'll become, who I'll love and How to support those I care about. I have 5 long terms goals, things that I'd like to accomplish by the time I die. It's a motivated bucket list.
1. I'd like to own a house. Actually have it as mine and so I can do what I want to it, like put in a swimming pool or something.
2. I'd like to get married, assuming there's someone out there for everyone, even me.
3. I'd like a couple of kids, the idea of that deep attachment to another being is amazing to me, even if I end up adopting, Id like to experience that kind of unconditional love for myself.
4. I'd like to keep writing, a blog with maybe ten loyal readers; who read 90% of my posts is enough for me. I just want to keep this... For me, my creative outlet.
5. I'd like to always be close to my family, I love them with all my heart and they have all, in their own way supported and helped me through stuff. If you could choose family...
I'd choose 2012 Brangelina, right after brad proposed, obviously.
Then I'd choose my family, you know if Brangelina wouldn't have me.
It's good to have things to shoot for even if they're years and years away. They're the things you carry in the back of your mind, the things you hope to happen in your life.
Do you have goals like this?
Anything that could be months or years away, but something that matters to you, that you want for you.
Let me know in the comments down below if you have one of those long term, hopefully one day sort of goals, I'd love to know.
Cheers
I've learnt a really important lesson lately and that's that I can't control everything, as much as I'd really like to, a lot of things going on in my life are not within my control. I can't control more things than I can and while this used to bother me quite a lot, I've grown accustomed to just letting things happen and then I get to actually enjoy it when I control something.
I have goals, I have ideas and ambitions about the things I can control, what I'll become, who I'll love and How to support those I care about. I have 5 long terms goals, things that I'd like to accomplish by the time I die. It's a motivated bucket list.
1. I'd like to own a house. Actually have it as mine and so I can do what I want to it, like put in a swimming pool or something.
2. I'd like to get married, assuming there's someone out there for everyone, even me.
3. I'd like a couple of kids, the idea of that deep attachment to another being is amazing to me, even if I end up adopting, Id like to experience that kind of unconditional love for myself.
4. I'd like to keep writing, a blog with maybe ten loyal readers; who read 90% of my posts is enough for me. I just want to keep this... For me, my creative outlet.
5. I'd like to always be close to my family, I love them with all my heart and they have all, in their own way supported and helped me through stuff. If you could choose family...
I'd choose 2012 Brangelina, right after brad proposed, obviously.
Then I'd choose my family, you know if Brangelina wouldn't have me.
It's good to have things to shoot for even if they're years and years away. They're the things you carry in the back of your mind, the things you hope to happen in your life.
Do you have goals like this?
Anything that could be months or years away, but something that matters to you, that you want for you.
Let me know in the comments down below if you have one of those long term, hopefully one day sort of goals, I'd love to know.
Cheers
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